Stranger I Met Through a Friend at the Lake

26 11 2007

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Gender: Male
Age: 21
Home State: Kansas
Favorite Pastime: Hunting, Playing Sports, Watching Movies
Most Respected Person Alive: My grandfather, He is a hard worker and always honest
Who would you trade lives with if you could pick anyone: John Wane
Do you believe in God? Yes
How old do you want to be when you get married, if you would like to get married: Whatever age I am when I finish vet school and have enough money to support a family.
What do you want to be remembered for: My work ethic.
Have you had any life changing experiences: Not yet….
Who has helped you the most in your life: My family, they have made me the person I am today.
Where do you want to be in 30 years: I want to be a Vet in a small town with a son I can take hunting all the time.

How I met him: We met when one of my best friends started dating one of his best friends. We started all hanging out in a group recently so, I thought I should get to know more about him.





3 New Strangers in 2 Days

12 11 2007

Monday and Tuesday of last week I went and worked at a conference called Leadership on and off the field in Topeka, Kansas. While I was there I met many people but the main three I’m going to talk about were the Keynote speakers during the conference.

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Patti Phillips, an advocate for women and girls in sports, is the Director of the Women’s Intersport Network of Kansas City (WIN for KC). Previously, Ms. Phillips worked for the NCAA as the CHAMPS/Life Skills Program Coordinator in Education Outreach. She provides color commentary for several networks of high school and collegiate women’s basketball games. Ms. Phillips’ coaching career includes leading the Ottawa Lady Braves of Ottawa University as the head women’s basketball coach from a losing program to a national ranking.

Patti’s organization is tries to stress the importance of women and girls in sports. She had a really great message for all the student athletes in the audience. She talked about how student athletes are ahead of the game when it comes to working in a business because all projects in business has changed from an individual task to a team task. She gave them ideas on how to relate what they have learned while playing to their real lives and how to convert them to resume boosters.

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Mr. Hayes serves as the Executive Director of the Kansas Sports Hall of Fame. He is very passionate about perserving the history of athletics in Kansas. Mr. Hayes strives to fulfill the mission of the Kansas Sports Hall of Fame which is to honor, inspire, and educate the citizens of Kansas.

Ted had really interesting stories about the different athletes from Kansas how have been inducted to the hall of fame. My favorite story was about a 3 time gold Olympic medalist in the discus. He talked about the Olympic meet when this man was going for his 3rd gold medal in a row. He was going to do is final throw during that meet and he was in 5th place; his teammate was in first by about 12 ft and would have had the gold medal in the bag until he gave his teammate a tip that his shoulder is to low while he is throwing. So, the 2 time gold medalist goes up to throw his final time and took his teammates advice and beat him by 20 ft. He ended up with his 3rd gold medal in a row thanks to his teammate. That story really related the idea of ” there is not I in team” to the student athletes.

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Kendall Gammon , a Kansas native and 15 year veteran of the NFL, was drafted by the Pittsburgh Steelers following his college graduation. During his tenure with the Steelers he played in seven playoff games including Super Bowl XXX and was selected as a Pro Bowler in his fourteenth season while playing for the Kansas City Chiefs. Gammon received his B.S. in Education from Pittsburg State University with a goal of teaching and coaching at the high school level. At Pittsburg State he captained the Gorillas football team and led them to a NCAA Division II National Championship. Gammon was voted most inspirational player by his Gorilla teammates.

Kendall’s main point was that even though he wasn’t the most glamorous position on the team he could still make a huge positive impact on the community. He used the acronym SNAP to relate how to be a leader to the athletes. (S-Set Goals N- Notice Strengths A- Appreciate Others P-Practice Persistence) My favorite story he told was about when he was first called to go to the NFL combine. He was the first long snapper to be invited to that event and he wanted to make a stronger impression so he practiced persistence by snapping the ball at the wall for hours at a time because no one had time to catch the ball he was snapping. It paid off because he was drafted and stayed in the NFL for 15 years.

Getting to hear the stories from these strangers really paid off for me because I learned many life lessons for the life lessons of others.





How I Would Promote My StrangerStories Blog

31 10 2007

This post is an assignment for class. I will be discussing the ways I see best to promote my blog.

The target market I’m trying to reach with my blog are mostly college students. I want them to hear about other students on campus who have really interesting life experiences to share. I also want to get them excited about meeting people themselves so they can go out and learn from others as well. I know the first person I interviewed for this blog really informed me on things that I would have never known about the Middle East if I hadn’t sat down and taken the time to get to know him better.

I really think the least expensive and most effective way for a blog like mine to be promoted is word of mouth. If I get a lot of my friends to start reading my blog so they become interested and talk about it to their friends my readership should increase rapidly. Another inexpensive way to promote is to make a facebook group to get the name of my blog out there and to show what it is about. In that group I could ask for volunteers to be my next guest on the blog so they become excited to be part of my blog as well.  The more people I interview the more interest will be generated in my blog because that person will tell their friends to get on and read what they had to say.

Another way that seems to work really well with my peers is T-shirts. If I and a few of my friends started wearing these really awesome t-shirts with my blog site on it that may get a lot of student curious.  What else to we have to do in class during a long lecture but sit there and look at the backs of the other students in class.

I don’t know that I’m to the point of where I would buy any advertisement but with all of the newspapers geared toward us college students that could be a possibility. Another way would be to write a press release and send it to those papers so they become interested in what my blog has to say.  If I convinced them to do a feature article on my blog and its purpose my readership should increase along with the volunteers to be a part of the blog.

I also do my podcast over the same person I interview on my blog so I should start to include my blog site into my podcast so my listeners can see the connection. The podcast element could be another attention getter for my press release as well.

There are many other ways I would promote my podcast if it became popular on campus. I could hold a meet and greet with some of the people I interviewed so the students could ask them questions I didn’t ask.  Another thing I could do on campus would be having students nominate a person to be on my show the next week. Someone they see in class and someone they want to get to know better.

These are just a few ideas I have. If my blog and podcast become as popular as some have I would start to purchase my promotion. Until then I plan to do it all on my own.





No New Stranger This Week Just Information For All The Student Strangers Out There

29 10 2007

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This week I wanted to inform all the student strangers out there about this really helpful site. The information I will be sharing today is at www.students.gov. If your like me you may think that the government doesn’t know or care much about students. In my late night searching on the web I found a site that really surprised me. This site is ran by the government and it has information on planning your education, paying for your education, career development, campus life, online study help, military service, and your government online.

First I will highlight some really helpful links off of the main links they provide on the home page. The first headline is planning your education. Here are the main links I would suggest looking at:

The second heading on the home page is paying for your education. Here are the sites that have really helpful information for all students:

The next subheading is Career Development. These are all the different headings you could look at under this section.

  • Under each of these there are tons of useful links if you are looking for an internship or job while in college.

One of the most interesting subheadings in my opinion was Campus Life.

Studying is one of the most important parts of college and this subhead has great resource links for homework and for study skills.

For anyone interested in joining the military instead of going to college or going to the military before college there are many helpful links on this site as well. The final subheading is your government online. I am guilty of not being very well informed on my government so these links really helped me become informed and more aware of what is going on in our government.

Voting should be very important to all of us at this age because we are all eligible to vote and because there is an election coming up next year. We could be the difference makers in our own future. So we need to be informed when we head to the polls.

I hope this post was informative to many of my peers out there and if you have any questions or comments on what I have written this week feel free to comment!





Stranger Who Has Shared the Same Experiance

22 10 2007

Gender: Male
Age: 21
Home State: Kansas
Favorite Pastimes: Guitar, Filmmaking, movies, golf
Most Respected Person Alive: My mother
Who would I trade lives with: Robert Rodriguez, he just gets to make movies for a living, how cool is that?
Do you believe in God?: Yes, I’m a devout Roman Catholic
How old do I want to be when I get married?: about 23
What do I want to be remembered for?: Being a hard worker and a likable guy.
Have you had any life changing experiences?: Yes, meeting my current girlfriend.
Who has helped me the most in my life?: My Mother
Where do I want to be in 30 years?: I want to be retired with my wife

How I met him: We first met in a Freshman level P.E. class because we sat next to eachother but we didn’t really talk at all in that class. Then I saw him quit a few times while he was working at Applebees. I also worked as a server at Whiskey Creek so this is the experiance we shared. During this semester was also ended up sitting next to eachother in a Marketing class. Now, we seem to talk a little bit each day.





Strange Whom I Met On My First Trip To California

16 10 2007

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 Gender: Male
Age: 23
Home State: Kansas
Favorite Pastimes: Reading, Learning, Relaxing, Gardening, Carpentry
Most Respected Person Alive:I believe that everyone has something to offer in their own way. Consequently, It is hard for me to say who I respect most. There are a lot of people in this world whose name is unknown, yet they make more of an impact every day than any politician, leader, or businessperson ever will.
Who would I trade lives with: Just about anyone! I don’t know that I would want to permanently trade lives with anyone. However, I would love to temporarily trade lives with the richest of the rich, the poorest of the poor, the happiest person in the world, the saddest person in the world, etc. I would want to do this so that I could genuinely understand what other people experience.
Do you believe in God?: I acknowledge the possibility of a god and try and live my life as if there is. However, I don’t really believe that any one religious faith has all the answers and is completely correct. I think religion should be more about spirit and soul, and less about tradition and formalities.
How old do I want to be when I get married?: I do want to get married. However, I don’t think that there is any particular age when I want to do so. I think as long as I and my future wife are responsible enough to really understand the commitment we are making and the obstacles in life we will face, age doesn’t really matter.
What do I want to be remembered for?:As cliché as it sounds, I want to be remembered for making a positive impact in people’s lives. I want to be remembered for being caring, selfless, always helpful, etc. Basically I want to be remembered for displaying the best qualities of being human. Of course, as I am just human, I don’t know if this will really happen, but I like to think it will.
Have you had any life changing experiences?: I’ve had a thousand life changing experiences. Different people I’ve met, trips I’ve taken, books I’ve read, etc. have all influenced the way I live my life today. However, if I had to pick the strongest influence, I would say just the time goofing off with and getting to know various people throughout my college life has made me a completely different person today than I used to be.
Who has helped me the most in my life?: I’ve had a few friends in my life who have really helped me out through difficult times.
Where do I want to be in 30 years?: I don’t care where I am or what I am doing as long as I am healthy, happy, and I have a good family to share it with.

How I met him:We met when we were thrown together in a group of students who went on an alternative spring break to San Diego, California. While we were there we worked with homeless and street kids in a shelter called Stand Up for Kids. We got to talk a little a long the way but we never really got to know  very well. I have a lot of respect for him and how he lives his life.





Stranger Behind the Screen’s Web Development Assignment

12 10 2007

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The three different ways we have learned to build web sites have their own challenges and advantages. The only experience with web development I have had before this class was with hand coding. I really like hand coding because you have control over every aspect of what you are designing. Hand coding is a little harder because you have to know the code for every little thing you want to put on your site. I know there are many sites you can go to find them but with a WYSIWYG application that isnt’ necessary. Another challenge with hand coding is making sure you do ever code exactly right and making sure each command is closed properly. Personally, I’m the type of person that can design best if I can see exactly what I’m doing. So the WYSIWYG applications like dream weaver work a little better for me when I am designing from scratch. Dreamweaver is software which means I have to take the time to learn how to run it properly and how to use all of the different buttons to make the site look the way I want it to, so that could be somewhat of a challenge as well. I really like how Dreamweaver allows you to do the design aspect and flip right over to the coding so you can change it that way as well. I feel that a combination of hand coding for absolute control of your design and Dreamweaver so you can see exactly what you are doing is the perfect combination of the two different ways to create a site from scratch. Now, on the other hand I think updating a site that has already been made and is running well hand coding is the best way to update it. That is the way I have always updated sites for jobs I have had in the past and it always seems to work really well. Blog sites are really easy to use and seem to have a lot of benefits. Before I really started to like designing on my own I would have always used a site like this to manage my information because it is much less time consuming. Now that I understand how to do hand coding and Dreamweaver I realize this type of site has so many limitations.  The main way to choice how your site looks is by choosing one of the few templates they provide. I have seen how to go in and change the CSS but again that could be very time consuming and why mess with a site that is running properly when you could erase a < and the whole thing wouldn’t work properly.  After I get used to hand coding a little better I may go in and try to change something simple like a color but until then I’m happy with how this site looks for now. I am really learning a lot in this class. I hope to have my own site someday, maybe this summer, and keep using the information I have learned in the future.





Stranger from Another Country

8 10 2007

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Gender: Male
Age: 18
Home State: Kansas (or Home Country: The Philippines)
Favorite Pastime/s: Designing websites, surfing the Internet, and
listening to music
Most Respected Person Alive: My mom, because she usually takes the bold
move to pave the path our family would go through in life
Who would you trade lives with if you could pick anyone: My mom, because I
would love to be able to help her so she wouldn’t have to work hard
Do you believe in God? Yes, and I live a God-centric life, as I was raised
in a Catholic family.
How old do you want to be when you get married, if you would like to get
married:
I don’t think I have a set age for when I get married, but I know
that I’ll be ready when I meet the right person and when I’m financially
stable and emotionally mature enough for both of us.
What do you want to be remembered for: My dedication to my work and my
ability to reach out and help those in need, and being a ‘big brother’ to
people who seek guidance
Have you had any life changing experiences: When I joined the Youth for
Christ group back in Saudi Arabia – it made me closer to God than I ever was
Who has helped you the most in your life: My parents and Jesus Christ –
they’re my secret formula for success
Where do you want to be in 30 years: I want to have a successful career
and be well-established in life, with a happy family, living a decent life
and able to reach out and help others, especially the needy back in my home
country, the Philippines.

How I met him: I first met him in a class I took my freshman year. We both seem to like to sit in the front row. He appeared to be very shy at first but also very friendly. I was really interested in getting to know him better when he told me he was only 16 and a freshman in college. I was so impressed! We finnished the class and I didn’t really talk to him much after that until we both ended up in the front row again in a web development class.  He remembered me and so we began talking a little more as the class went on.  Now I would say he is a great classmate and friend.  I’m really glad we both ended up in the same place at the same time, twice.

Coming Soon: Podcast Interview with this stranger, check back for link
 





Strangers In The News

1 10 2007

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Take Me With You: A Round-the-World Journey to Invite a Stranger Home

This is a book written by Brad Newsham.  It tells of his 100-day journey to the Philippines, India, Egypt, Kenya, Tanzania, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. Along the way a lot of people help him on his journey and he gets to know a little bit about each of them.  One major question he asks is if they have ever left their home country before.  If they haven’t they become eligible for his offer that he will present at the end of his trip.  At the end of the trip Newsham picks one of the people who helped him who haven’t left their home country to come back to America with him and travel around the country at his expense.  I thought this was relevant to my blog because it is a great example of how getting to know new people throughout the world can effect many peoples lives in a good way!  I plan to buy this book and see how the story turns out! 

Take Me With You: A Round-the-World Journey to Invite a Stranger Home
by Brad Newsham
Travelers’ Tales, August 2000
$24.00 ($36.00 Canada), hardcover, 376 pages, 5.625″ x 8.25″
ISBN: 1-885211-51-1

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College-2-career.com’s Eric Snyder Offers His Coaching in Interviewing Skills

 

Eric Snyder coach’s interviewing skills in his 8 step winning strategy. “You can’t leave interviewing up to chance, you have to prepare,” Snyder says. “The first impression is the most critical. A decision is usually made in the first five minutes. If you have made a favorable impression, it can be easier from there. But making a professional first impression takes practice.”  He has many theories he believes will really help students have a successful interview. For more information, contact Eric Snyder, by phone at (415) 793-5292 or via www.college-2-career.com. The link to this full press release is at: http://www.pr.com/press-release/38491.  I feel this information is really important to this blog because it shows how being comfortable with meeting new people and have confidence while doing it is really critical in most people’s career’s as well.





The Stranger Behind the Screen

1 10 2007

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Gender: Female
Age: 20
Home State: Kansas
Favorite Pastime: I don’t really remember because all I do right now is HOMEWORK. But I think it was watching movies.
Most Respected Person Alive:My Grandmother, she is the sweetest, most thoughtful person I have ever known. She was diagnosed with cancer this week. So, if you pray keep her in your prayers.
Who would you trade lives with if you could pick anyone: My grandmother so I could take away all the pain from her.
Do you believe in God? Yes
How old do you want to be when you get married, if you would like to get married: The age I am when I know for sure I could spend the rest of my life with my other half, because I really don’t want to get a divorce.
What do you want to be remembered for: My kindness toward others, being a great mother, and dedication to my work.
Have you had any life changing experiences: Not yet but I do believe it will happen.
Who has helped you the most in your life: My parents, they would do anything to help me at any time.
Where do you want to be in 30 years: I want to be happily married, with children, and working at a job I enjoy.

This is part of my story…. but this blog isn’t about me.  It will be about the people I meet while living my life as a student.  I want to get to know as many stories as I can about people who share the same classroom, campus, and world I do.  I know there are a lot of interesting stories out there to be heard.  I want to improve the questions I ask them or maybe just add to the ones I have answered already.  If you have any suggestions on what to ask please let me know.  I will update this blog weekly and add the story of the stranger I met that week.








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